the cupcake/graduation weekend

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This past Thursday evening we made the drive to Western NE in good time, managing to avoid hitting deer or getting stuck in the washed-out portions of the road we weren’t supposed to take. (A recurring theme when road trips + Val’s house is involved.)

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Friday we got up, had coffee & English muffins, drove into town, spent a very non-city amount of time at the bank (while waiting I read alll the auction announcements & some locally authored/awkwardly self photographed children’s book about 3 Yorkie puppies and Christmas??), went to The grocery store for a few things, then finally converged on the church youth center where we would be baking.

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(I say we, but it was mostly Val, of course.)

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A shameful amount of butter was used. Valerie put my Christmas present to good use (the big ole bag of local flour) as well as her shiny new Kitchenaid mixer.

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I wrote out labels and assembled the cupcake stands. You can find a how-to on Annie’s Eats (as well as most of the cupcake recipes we used, what can we say, we like Annie). The class colors were orange & pink in memory of Michael and Katie.

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Have cupcakes, will travel.

Kinds of cupcakes we made:
Strawberry Lemon
Boston Cream Pie
Chocolate
Strawberry Cheesecake
{about 150 total}

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(I always have fun w/ Val’s neice & nephew! And the rest of her family for that matter!)
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Saturday was the graduation. It actually wasn’t too long but contained all the necessary, slightly cheesy elements of a small town graduation. (General rule: the fewer the graduates, the longer the graduation. Even homeschool. Especially homeschool.)

At the reception, I stole bites of Kay’s chocolate cupcake but I was worried we’d run out so I didn’t eat any more then. But I did get seconds of Val’s grandma’s potato salad.. c’mon son. So good. The cupcakes were a big hit and it all turned out pretty great!

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(Check out Val’s blog about the weekend here.)

monday gifts

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Thankful for… 

a safe trip across the state and back for graduations. Every so often I reach a point where I need to get out of town and it was wonderful to be on the plains, see the stars, & watch the horizon.

150ish cupcakes, mostly made by Val. She’s amazing!

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extra family, I don’t think you can have too many of these.

a sickly car.

Kalyn’s hair flower, disco ball edition.

not getting to see my own fam, I wanted to this weekend but it didn’t work out.

small town graduations. Young men I’m proud of, who live their lives for the Lord and aren’t ashamed of it.

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orange and pink class colors, for Katie & Michael.

longtime friends, family, camp people I got to see.

small-town steadiness.

edible multicolored lava (exhausting imagination-fueled play with 4 yr old Caiden).

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san pedro’s on the drive back.

hot glue. butter. flour in a cloth bag. butter. aprons. butter. cream cheese. butter.

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mutant dandelion.

hollering father, bellowing cows.

a jar of the grape jelly and a jar of salsa.

Skip, Val, Brett, the Duke, & me: friends for the journey.

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4,000

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Earlier this spring I celebrated 4,000 hours logged as a caregiver! Woo hoo!

I feel like I’m just getting to that point… like when you’re learning an instrument and you’ve practiced a lot and put in the work and realize, huh, you’re now at a place where you sortof know what you are doing. You have fun. You make music. All the exercises and etudes start to reap exciting results.

Centrum Silver? I know exactly where it is in most Walgreens. No appetite, low weight? I know a few tricks and recipes, maybe I can even bring some joy back to mealtimes! House tucked way back in a neighborhood? I know how to wander around till I find it!

Ask me the same question over and over? I can answer it with patience about 25 more times than I could when I started. Easily confused/anxious/forgetful? I will speak clearly and slowly and drop in repetitive details in a comforting way.

Holidays? I know to make them a special occasion. Laundry days? I will whistle while I work, put fresh sheets on your bed, and possibly wrangle a way to wash that sweater you always wear. Bad days? I will hold your hand, pray for you, do whatever I can to help. Everydays? I hope I can make you smile and bring some cheer just by being there.

Anyway, I’m working on the next thousand hours, and I’m having so much fun.

The King’s Emmylou

Trying to get rid of the misconceptions that my friends and I are “too serious”/”too mature”/”too intellectual”/”too good at accurate texting” etc.

5/5/2013, 3:30 P.M. 

Me: Both of the Pacific street possums died last night.

Anonymous Friend: Oh sad… I think we’re gonna go see Irwin man at 550 I’d you wanna join

Me: Lamest movie ever…

AF: Perhaps. It’s all about adding rashes. I meant sting rays. Stupid phone is sure retraining. Entertaining.

Me: Needs to be retrained.

AF: So that’s a yes? No? Maybe? Taco?

Me: Sorry, i got caught up in the “Emmylou language” of it all. Meaning of course “English language.” I’m going to my aunt’s tonight.

AF: I figured, no worries! Just thought I’d ask ya. Emmylou.

Me: String rays.

monday gifts

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thankful for… 

moments with quiet in them.

crazy grad season, yet again. But I am thankful, I love celebrating these friends & cheering them on!

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a handmade card for my red-house-roommate Hanner, the super nurse!

running into my old professor and adviser, sharing a lemon bar with them, getting multiple hugs & catching up.

the words “no” and “I can’t”… I majorly dislike these words! But I have been very aware of the sacrifice of saying “yes” to things.. they mean I must say no to others and miss out on good things. It has been hard on me even though I know it’s necessary and worth it.

things that are overwhelming.

days I don’t looove being a caregiver. I have them sometimes.

a long phone call with Joe. He is a God-given brother and we are on each other’s team.

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Eli the lion-dog.

cranberry apple cake.. I think I finally found the perfectly balanced ingredients magic.

late night chat with 2 friends of Val’s and mine from high school. We were all Bible quiz teammates, as well as did camp and other things. They were in town for one night only so we yawned and just kept talking! Also in attendance: Brett the blanket & John Wayne the blanket. (No yawning from them, they have issues with showing weakness.)

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springtime in nebraska

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and this and this and this

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and, I’m brave to say it because I think the word on the street is we’re supposed to be outraged, but.. I’m not mad. #1: Because I am from a drought-riddled land and we do not complain about moisture. #2: How can you be mad at something that’s not even snow, it’s snow-cone ingredient. I’ve made my fair share at camp so I know it when I see it. All I need now is syrup (probably watermelon).

(in)RL

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On Saturday I was able to host a get-together in my home for several Omaha area ladies-writers, bloggers, readers, dreamers. We are connected through the incourage website which is part of Dayspring. The “inRL” thing stands for “in real life”, which is basically like an amazing conference that comes to you. It sounds strange to explain, but when you actually see it happening it makes perfect sense and is truly wonderful! There were 6,000 women tuned in around the world, in places like Singapore & Australia, & Nebraska!

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The theme was “beach house” and as you can see I had a lot of fun with that! It never fails that I enjoy decorating for a party and possibly going overboard with it all. At one point I said to myself, “Now, this is a beach house that has been around for a while, it’s not like a new beach house” ….and that is when I knew I was probably crazy. (Bless my roommate’s long-suffering heart!) 

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I prepared an icebreaker but had to interrupt multiple conversations to get it started- in other words the ice was already broken, or never there to start with!
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What fun, amazing, beautiful women! It was an honor to have them come to my house. We had plenty of differences, but at the heart level, so much in common! It was sweet to connect with them!

We sipped lemonade, we laughed a lot, we talked a lot, we watched & discussed several of the inRL videos together. It’s hard to describe the inspirational, encouraging environment that was there between sisters in Christ. What a gift.
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I used shells collected from my travels to Jamaica and some that Dad gave me from his trip to Israel, plus an amazing/scary amount of glass containers that I collected from around the house.
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Mason jars, of course, and I stuck those little doilies on with a few drops of hot glue, which peels right off when you’re done. “How easy is that?” as our dear friend Ina might say. Fabulous.
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Everyone brought delicious food to share! There was some hype built up around Amy’s chocolate cake, and it did not disappoint! :)
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Fantastic gifts from Dayspring to give the ladies!
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These favors are the product of snow days this winter, as are many of the other crafty decorations. (Anchors: like 20 cents from the craft store, plus paint & twine, plus a great verse, and you’re done!)  
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I spied myself in the welcome video! And then this is me standing in the same spot after it was all said and done, happy to have taken part in (in)RL for the second year!
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monday gifts {JTREAT}

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Thankful for… 

a very inspiring, encouraging weekend at the Jump Tandem Retreat!

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this awesome Omaha sister & friend.

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amazing women who gave from their hearts.

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messing around with paint and glue and old magazines.

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God’s timing. He is so kind to me.

the people He uses to remind me that I’m not alone.

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that God is our refuge & strength, an ever-present help in trouble. I was remembering that a lot last week. And thinking of my favorite peaceful camp home.

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keeping track of BQ nationals from far away.

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